Find that balance necessary to generate interest and pique her curiosity. Men still choose to write negative dating profiles. If you are a smoker or drug user, I am not interested..." “In short, I’m not here to waste your time, so please don’t waste mine.” “I am done playing games, looking for genuine people and quality not quantity.” "I'm not here for drama." "No games" "No players" "No bs" These are awful approaches. Don’t start listing things that you aren’t interested in.
I’d like to get to know you over a couple of drinks to see if we click on both an emotional and physical level. But it would be nice if you’re also available to go out for drinks from time to time, maybe catch a ballgame, or watch a movie. My marriage is very boring, although I do love my wife. This one of the top complaints I hear from women when it comes to online dating.Taking the time to write a good profile will help you increase your odds of getting a match who is right for you, and having a great first date.Avoid using words like "if" or "maybe" on your profile. If you are 21 years old and don't know if you want kids, that's fine. But if you are 40 and don't know, it's a HUGE red flag. Also, if you appear wishy-washy women will run for the hills.Too many guys write sentences like these on their profiles" "..message me if you'd like to meet a nice guy and..." "..maybe we can meet for coffee and see ..." Instead, simply close out your profile ASSUMING she's going to write you; "I look forward to your message." See the difference? This guy is 46 years old and has he will date women as young as 18. You are a man and you need to know what you are doing on a dating site. Even "undecided" is better than "prefer not to say" in regards to this question.A well written profile can save you a lot of time from dealing with lukewarm connections, bad dates, and awkward conversation.