You may not love the idea of your child beginning to date, but don't try to pretend it’s not happening."Parents can be so uncomfortable with the idea of their kid becoming more grown up -- we wish our kids could stay kids," Atkins says.Technology has changed the way teens date, and many parents aren't sure how to talk about dating these days.
"A 12-year-old who looks 16 isn’t ready to date someone who is 16," Anthony says.
Middle-schooler Giovanni, said, "Some people just hang out with their boyfriend or girlfriend. But some people get sexual about it."Statistics show that 46 percent of teens between the ages of 15-19 have had sex at least once.
Teens are exposed to intimate relationships early on. I've heard people talk about doing 'it.' I've heard cases of people doing it in the school. Miller was joined on "The Early Show" Wednesday by Linda Fears, editor in chief of Family Circle magazine and Momster.com, as well as Dr. You have to have had lots of conversations about this so they're aware of your expectations, your family values."While sex is one thing to be concerned about, Miller was also concerned about the ability of these kids to develop emotional relationships because of the frequency of hooking up and casual encounters.
Then tell them, “Just three more years, and you can date.” Just kidding -- sort of.
CBS News correspondent Michelle Miller chatted about it with group of middle-schoolers and high-school freshmen from Hackensack, N. She says those views aren't what they used to be regarding the appropriate age to begin to date."I think it doesn't really matter about age too much, if you feel like a relationship could mean something to you," said Jane, 14.
Michelle Anthony, Ph D, a developmental psychologist and learning therapist in Denver, suggests an opening line like: “It sounds like a lot of kids are talking about dating now. ” If you can't tell what dating means to your kid, try discussing dating as shown on TV shows or in movies that are age-appropriate.