Greif cautions collegiettes not to get involved in activities that only he likes; he says, “You have to like them too.
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“Don't worry if you continue to be more [talkative] than him as you develop your relationship,” she says.
“Complementary personalities can be a great match.” If you have difficulty being outgoing as well, Greif assures collegiettes that that’s totally normal. “People who are getting to know each other may not know how much silence to allow [because] silence can be uncomfortable if it goes on for too long...
This is especially true of shy guys who may guard their emotions more than their more outspoken friends.
Waldon agrees that you should take it slow and suggests “low-key interactions such as a daytime study date or tutoring session.” It can be difficult for a shy guy to ask out a girl on an official date, so asking your shy guy to casually hang out clues him in on your interest so he can feel confident to take your interaction to the next level.
If you’re like most shy guys you feel kinda anxious when it comes time to walking over and meeting a girl that you find attractive.