Learn to dress your body to hide your flaws and accentuate the parts of your body that rock.
Many women and men out there have grown up with similar messaging from the ones they love.
I don’t care take your pick on what you wish to use as a label (I personally love saying playfully “chunky monkey” when speaking of myself) … You have to believe in your heart that everyone out there is given an equal shot at being happy, to enjoy the dating journey and at finding love.
If you are walking around thinking the deck is stacked against you because you are of certain size, look or personality then you are aiding in making this notion a reality.
Yes, I go shopping and I see many of the dreadful non-options out there.
Don’t take the easy route and simply go with the crap out there because you didn’t want to invest in the time to look your very best.
The choice of clothing and style is one of the greatest messengers that overweight people have.